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Approach Any Woman Through
Dissociation
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Approaching women is difficult. Most
guys I know would almost rather run
naked in front of a stadium full of
Promise Keepers than approach a
beautiful woman cold and start a
conversation with her. If you have
trouble walking up to women - or have
any kind of hesitation at all - it
will help you to master the secret
power of dissociation.
Normally, when you get that feeling of
fear and hesitation, emotionally
detaching yourself from the moment is
all but impossible no matter how hard
you try. That's because using sheer
willpower to consciously banish your
fear and hesitation doesn't work. Your
willpower is no match for your
unconscious mind's program of fear and
hesitation - fear and hesitation that
you've probably practiced for years.
Sheer willpower won't work. Instead,
you can "trick" your unconscious mind
into helping you and "install" better
programming of relaxed, playful
confidence.
The next time you find yourself
hesitating to approach a beautiful
woman that knocks your socks off,
STOP. Take a breath and allow a wave
of relaxation to move through your
body. Next, imagine stepping outside
of your own body and looking at the
situation from a third-person
perspective. Imagine seeing yourself
standing there, her, and the rest of
the environment around you.
From this third-person perspective
you'll find yourself relaxed and
objective. And you won't feel as if
you're doing an approach anymore.
Rather, you'll have the unusual but
calming feeling that you're just
WATCHING an approach, like watching a
movie. You've dissociated yourself
from all the unhelpful feelings and
thoughts.
Now imagine watching yourself walking
up to the beautiful woman. Watch
yourself as someone who is friendly,
playful, relaxed, and curious about
her and say to her, "Excuse me... I
just noticed something interesting
about you..." Imagine her smiling back
and responding to whatever you say
with curiosity.
When you dissociate and watch the
events from a third-person perspective
like this, you're hypnotically
practicing success. You're programming
your unconscious mind with new
experiences and beliefs of relaxed
confidence.
If she walks away before you have a
chance to actually approach, don't
worry about it. Do NOT put extra
pressure on yourself. Relax,
dissociate, and relax. This is called
practicing. There will always be more
women.
With enough practice through
dissociation, your willpower will
naturally become congruent your new
programming and you'll no longer have
to do the exercise. You'll simply be
able to approach women easily and at
will.
Regards,
Derek Vitalio
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