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Why Your Tribal Brain Makes You
Nervous
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Let me share with you a little secret
about how all men's brains - including
YOURS - is wired when approaching
woman.
Have you ever thought to yourself, WHY
do I get nervous or anxious when
approaching a woman? After all, if you
approach 5 or 6 new women every day,
if you could be absolutely fearless
and confident with women, your love
and sex life would probably explode.
So why would you get nervous and
anxious at all -- seems like your
brain isn't doing what's best for you
does it?
Just take me, for example. Normally, I
can approach any women, anytime,
anywhere. Even if I screw an approach
up, I usually feel fine about it and
it doesn't stop me from making the
next one.
However, last weekend I was at one of
my sister's parties. The place was
packed with single girls. Yet when I
saw a girl I liked, I would freeze up
and this little voice in my head would
tell me, "What if you screw up...
maybe you shouldn't do this... be
careful!"
I just couldn't get that little voice
out of my head and I left the party
after only an hour because I was
getting frustrated with myself.
So how come I could approach an
anonymous woman on the street who I'll
probably never see again, and yet feel
anxious about approaching a woman at
one of my sister's parties?
The answer lies in how humans evolved.
For most of history, men and women
lived in small groups of hunters and
gatherers of no more than 100
individuals. If you made a move on ANY
woman - and she rejected your advances
- EVERYONE would know about it. And
that would mean MASSIVE negative
social proof with all of your
potential mates. Because if one woman
rejected you, you'd look like a loser
to ALL of the other women you could
mate with. You'd seriously jeopardize
your ability to ever get laid again
and have children.
So your shyness and nervousness is
actually a DEFENSE to protect you from
looking like a reject in the tribal
setting. And that's why, when my
sister and her friends were watching
me that night at the party, I FROZE
UP. After all, if I screwed my
approach up with any girl, my sister
and ALL of her friends would have seen
me - and that would have looked really
bad!
However, in today's world we DON'T
live in small bands of hunters and
gatherers. We DON'T have to worry
about one rejection influencing all of
the other females (potential mates) we
know. In fact, in today's world, when
we have the opportunity to approach a
woman, we're COMPLETELY ANONYMOUS. We
can screw up badly and there are
ABSOLUTELY NO CONSEQUENCES!
So we've spent millions of years
adapting to an environment where
rejection from a girl could mean
disastrous consequences - and only in
the last few hundred years has the
situation completely changed. In other
words, what was once a useful strategy
for being genetically successful (i.e.
being cautious when approaching women)
is no longer a successful genetic
strategy at all!
In today's modern society of
anonymity, being nervous, shy, or
cautious is DISASTROUS as far as
getting laid. Shyness is a computer
program in your brain, evolved over
millions of years, that is meant to
help you and protect you -- but now
only hinders you. Times have changed,
but your brain hasn't.
That's why you need advanced
techniques that change the very core
of your psychology from the inside
out! And that's one of the reasons you
need advanced seduction technology,
including hypnosis and NLP... so that
you won't be prisoner to millions of
years of evolutionary programming like
everyone else.
By Derek Vitalio
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